One of our recent posts dealt with some of the issues unique to teens and drugs. In addition to the issues we’d already mentioned, the article named a number of reasons for the high prevalence of mental-health issues among affluent teens. Among them were an increasingly narcissistic society, overbearing parents, and an common attitude of perfectionism.
Each of these reasons are likely contributors to the prevalence of mental health issues among upper-middle-class (and above) teens. Still, as far as I’m concerned, the main take home message of the article is this:
Money truly doesn’t buy happiness.
While we often focus on the lower socioeconomic strata, these recent findings, indicate that being financially stable offers little in the way of protection from some of the most common psychological difficulties.
Thankfully, the researchers cited in the article made some very simple suggestions to parents:
- Give children clear responsibilities to help around the house.
- Take part in community service (to unite the family and reduce narcissism).
- Reduce TV watching (especially of reality TV shows that glorify celebrity and excess).
- Monitor internet use.
- Stop obsessing about perfect grades and focus instead on the joy of learning for its own sake.
I couldn’t agree more with these recommnedations. Having taught a number of classes myself, I have withnessed the ridiculous inflation in students’ expectations of top grades. I think it’s time we turned attention back to the family and reintroduce some of the basic skills that many addicts find themselves learning much too late… Often in recovery.